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To some extent, raising grateful kids is a long-term practice. It involves helping them develop strong relationships and empathy toward othersand mindfulness of the good things in their life. But can everyday, simple actions help us foster gratitude in our kids, too?
Advertisement X Your guide to more connection, compassion, and kindness this month Her team studied gratitude in over six to nine year olds and their parents, who were mostly European-American moms.
The parents completed online diaries each day for a week, reporting how often they noticed their children demonstrating gratitude—from showing good manners both with and without prompting from parents to expressing more meaningful gratitude toward others.
They also indicated how often they helped to cultivate gratitude in their children each day, by for example highlighting nice things people did for their child or reminding them to say thanks. The researchers found that the more parents took action to cultivate gratitude in their kids on a certain day, the more their kids showed gratitude on that same day—compared to days when the parents took less action and compared to other kids whose parents took less action.
How are these study findings useful to parents who want to raise grateful kids? Here are several suggestions to keep in mind as you aspire to be a positive influence on your children.
Take it one day at a time The findings by Hussong and her colleagues suggest that parents can engage in a number of daily activities to help their kids learn about gratitude. For example, perhaps you notice your child telling her grandparents how much it means to her that they cooked her favorite foods when she visited.
In moments like this, you can tell your children how you feel about them expressing gratitude to others or to you. You can also talk about why you feel thankful during shared experiences with your kids, such as appreciating the natural world when you are taking a hike in the woods.
Three Good Things Try It Now Daily practices can become a pattern that helps you model, teach, reinforce, and create opportunities to cultivate gratitude.
During dinner or immediately before bedtime, parents and children can take turns sharing about three good things that happened in their lives each day.
Parents of older children and teens can practice daily guided gratitude meditations together that help to bring to awareness the many gifts in their lives—from their bodies and possessions, to beloved family and friends, to modern technology such as electricity and running water, to institutions such as libraries and schools.
For adults, gratitude is often thought to involve feeling thankful or joyful for receiving a gift that was given to you voluntarily and intentionally by another. For children, gratitude may not involve all these adult experiences and expressions at the same time.
Nurturing gratitude can be a two-way street; parents and children can take turns leading the effort.
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On the one hand, children who proactively receive more support from their parents to develop their gratitude may learn and show more gratitude, and come to see that their parents value gratitude. When your partner goes out of her way to put gas in your car because you have a busy week ahead, talk about your gratitude over Sunday breakfast as a family.
When you notice that your son is beaming with delight and hugs his aunt after she repairs his broken bicycle, ask him about his feelings, what it took for his aunt to fix his bike, why he thinks she chose to do so, and what kind of thank you note or drawing he might create for her.
But it feels empowering to me and much more doable to see gratitude as developing step by step and during shared, everyday moments throughout the year. I also find that I empower my son when I recognize that we are more of a duo—rather than lead and backup singers—as we collaborate to cultivate gratitude together.
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